to all the people who commented on my last post, a very warm thanl u.. seeing alll those comments made me stronger, tairebabs, mz dee muahhh!
after my little incident, am back to being my usual bubbly self, am now all happy and cheerful and carefree and i laugh a lot now. i have even forgiven my friend who caused my heartache..hehe...lol..lol..
its nice to be happy isnt it? my younger sister graduated from secondary school recently, am excited for her, now its remaining the last born to actually finish, mehn my momma has tried oo.. and she had six of us, 5 are all high school graduates, 2 are uni grads and am going to be next, insha Allah!.
ok i have a little dilemma, in my house, we grew up calling ourselves our given names, no prefix or suffix, no 'sister' 'aunti' or anything like that.
now my elder sister is getting married soon and my mum has suddenly had this attack of.. (dont know what to call it) and is askling us to start calling her 'sister'. to give her credit, she has tried a couple of times to instill that into us, but it just wasnt working and yours truly, would rather walk up to them and talk rather than call them something like sister! lol and my older ones hated it too.
now she's really serious cos we told her we think saying 'sista' is too local, she says we shud coin something that we feel good using as long as its not their name or something, i have tried in different languages but i cant find any fitting ones, and i know this time, there is getting away from it.lol...so i brought it to blogsville so that all you dear dear people can help me, what do you call your own elder ones either at home or where you come from..e.g your state.
help me pls