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Sunday, September 14, 2008

Am i shallow or what?

OK this is not any lyrically rhyming poem but its an ode quite alright, an appreciation of the work of God and a little of man(grooming).
so many fine people in this life.. was never overwhelmed by fineness or beauty(whichever u choose) until i got to this town(JD,JAND,LONDON ETC). SO many fine brothers and am not even talking about the blacks, the mulattos are by far leading the race, closely followed by other Africans like the Sudanese(their coloring think), the brown people(people of Asia, India, Pakistan, the mixed ones,) even lil kids are so fine i feel like stealing one of each sex! God!!

am so obsessing right now!
life is good! being in the midst of such finery is good for the soul, no? lol

does that make me shallow? like seriously, everyone wants a fine boy on their arms or to call their own but constantly seeking?? does that make a person shallow? my friend says its OK to want a fine boy but if after sometime of being together and u cant see past his outer beauty then, u r indeed shallow! hmm.. at the rate am going i think that's going to be my fate! cos i don't see me capitulating to anything less than what i think is beautiful.. but where i also begin to think am not that shallow is that i have never dated an over the top fine guy.. people actually say that my ex is fine, he's handsome blah blah but i don't see it, i see all that is wrong with him instead.... is it that am too critical or is it that my standards are too high?? hmm...

Also, is it true that th older u get, u tend to lose all them tendencies to be lusting after fine boys and actually look for more meaningful things in guys??.. anyone?? if its true then i think i shud be rest assured that mine is not a problem but something that's going to go away sometime soon...

Seriously, apart from trying to be philosophical about this whole issue, who no like betta thing??

hey, and whats the deal with all the mariage talk nowadays?? i think if one of my mates should mention marriage in the same breath as a conversation, am going to scream!!!!

9 comments:

Rita said...

You are so funny...

It's very natural to appreciate fine things but i think it is not safe to lust

I have a friend that likes them handsome...and she's married to a very handsome man...not all handsome men are only looks, some are not only good looking but are great, loving men. And I pray that is what you get...

As one gets older, you begin to see that there is more to people than just their physical...there are values, character and personality traits, etc which are so important that if you still find your heart missing a beat becos of a handsome guy, you will quickly go back to reality knowing that there is more to look out for.

doll said...

my dear same here. if one friend should mention aso-ebi to me am gon scream up a storm

Thandiwe said...

lmao!
ure too funny!

ahn ahn its okay to want a fine man oh please and dont stop wishing God will give u exactly what u want.

xx

Ladi said...

what if they mentioned honey moon? once my roomate and I spent hours looking at wedding dresses. I was 17 and didn't even have a boyfriend!

Aphrodite said...

Marriage...Marriage!!!
Okay scream...
lol...
Maybe am not ur mate...

Miss E said...

we all want them handsome and we think thats all that matters but then we find out its really not all about the looks, but for some silly reason, we stil want the good looks neway.lol. i guess we all hope that the goodlooks come with the whole package: everything a girl wants

TY Tha Mos Magnificent said...

nothing is wrong, everybody wants a fine boy or chick

But I Care said...

yup... please feel free to want a fine man. After all, they too must eventually settle down.:)

xoxo

Buttercup said...

Theres nthn wrong with wantin a fine brother, as long as u can look past his looks..but yea, its these hotties(some) that end up being heartbreakers..

LOL @ the marriage thing